The
Different Reproduction Strategies of Men And Women
ver since the beginning of humanity, reproduction
strategies of men and women have been very different. It is because the
costs for sexual behavior and reproduction are much greater for women
then for men.
For a male, his
reproductive success rests on mating with (many) fertile females. And
how do men tell if a woman is fertile? They look for the younger ones
since age is closely related to fertility. Other important clues include
wide hips, smooth (healthy) skin, and high energy level. In short, males
place emphasize on physical attractiveness. Numerous surveys
conducted on university campuses and other places have proved this
theory to be true. And this is why modern-day women use tactics that
enhance their physical attractiveness in the dating game. Things like
dieting, makeup, and tiny tube tops…
The scenario is quite
different for women. Because female reproductive success is dependent on
her physical resources, a woman is more likely to seek potential mates
who can provide various resources such as good, shelter, protection, and
social and economic resources.
In other words, a man
who can take care of her everyday needs.
In the ancient times,
this would mean a hunter with great strength who could provide her with
enough food to last the winter and build a nice shelter for her. And in
our modern times, it means offering the resources necessary for secure
living by doing acts such as flashing wallets, driving expensive cars
and going to fancy restaurants for dinner. Hanging around a rich and
handsome man can certainly make a woman feel safe and secure because she
knows her man can protect her and provide her with the resources she
needs.
However, before you get
your credit card out and ask the Hollywood bimbo down the hall to go to
the most expensive restaurant in town, let me tell you the secret to
doing this without spending a dime.
The
Physiological Stimuli
After reading the
previous section, you probably know why a famous, rich or a tall,
handsome man can automatically trigger certain feelings inside of a
woman and make her feel great. But as you know, not every one of us can
be fortunate enough to be six foot five. And of course, most of us are
not rich entrepreneurs but normal guys with everyday jobs. However, the
good news is that even if you are not rich and famous or especially
handsome, you can still learn to trigger the same erotic feelings inside
the girl of your dreams.
What you will learn to do is how to STIMULATE these feelings in the girl
you want.
Remember that there are
stimuli to every kind of feeling. A stimulus is simply something that
can trigger a certain feeling or emotion in a person. For example, a
crawling spider is a stimulus that may send a girl into her deepest
fears, while a little innocent-looking baby with big eyes may be a
stimulus which can make us feel warm in our hearts.
As you have learned
earlier, women are attracted to things such as wealth and social status.
But wait, aren’t those stimuli since they are triggering some sorts of
feelings inside a woman? Yes. They are.
And hey!
If wealth and social status are stimuli that can make a woman
feel safe and secure, why can’t we use other stimuli to get the same
results?
Remember, the key to
attracting women is giving them the kind of feelings they want.
If a woman likes the feeling of being with you, she will be
eager for more. But if she does not like the feeling of being with you,
I can guarantee you will be spending yet another night alone in bed. So
what you need to do is to use various stimuli to CREATE the feelings
they WANT.
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